Whether we love the world or we love God, Radha Krishna, whether we hate the world or we hate God, Radha Krishna, the way of practice is the same. The method is the same, and the result is the same.
Our mind gets attached,then the heart melts, the mind melts, and we attain the result of that for which the mind melts. If it melts for Bhagwan, we attain Bhagwan. People have hated Bhagwan and they attain Him like Kans, Ravan.
Just as the gopis love Shri Krishna, every moment they're thinking about Shri Krishna, whether they're cleaning the house, taking care of the children, the cows, taking care of the garden, whatever they were doing, they were lovingly thinking about Shri Krishna every moment.
In the same way, Kans was thinking about Shri Krishna every moment. He asked to bring a glass of water, in the water he sees Krishna; he throws it away. Food comes, in the food he sees Krishna; he throws the food away. In his clothes, he sees Krishna; he rips the clothes and throws it. In the whole body, he starts tearing, scraping his body, seeing Krishna. He also attained Krishna, just as the gopis. The level of realization was different. He did not attain what the gopis attained, but he also attained Krishna.
So the heart melts. Whether we love or we hate, the mind gets attached. There's something called wax. If you take some wax and you melt it until it becomes liquid, then you take some color, and you throw it into that melted wax and let it cool down. The color becomes one with the wax. Now the color challenges the wax, “Hey, get rid of me if you can!” And the wax also challenges the color, “Come out of me if you can!” It becomes one.
